{"id":2299,"date":"2007-12-09T16:23:00","date_gmt":"2007-12-09T16:23:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/foxtongue.com\/dreampepper\/2007\/12\/09\/i-dont-know-where-lethbridge-is-but-the-name-is-nice\/"},"modified":"2007-12-09T16:23:00","modified_gmt":"2007-12-09T16:23:00","slug":"i-dont-know-where-lethbridge-is-but-the-name-is-nice","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/foxtongue.com\/dreampepper\/2007\/12\/09\/i-dont-know-where-lethbridge-is-but-the-name-is-nice\/","title":{"rendered":"I don&#8217;t know where Lethbridge is, but the name is nice"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Standing on the C-train, I&#8217;m looking out the window, trying to pinpoint what stop I need to be closest to the bookstore, (I had accidentally left my book, The Best of Lady Churchill&#8217;s Rosebud Wristlet, on the floor of the taxi we took from the airport to the temporary hotel), when she taps me on the arm. &#8220;Excuse me,&#8221; she says, and asks a woman&#8217;s name, something with multiple syllables I don&#8217;t exactly catch. &#8220;I&#8217;m sorry, no. You&#8217;re mistaken.&#8221; I reply, shaking my head. She&#8217;s somewhere in her fifties, well dressed, slightly expensive. The top of her head comes up to my chin. &#8220;I&#8217;m sorry,&#8221; her voice catches, &#8220;for a moment.. you reminded me of my.. my daughter.&#8221; Suddenly, she&#8217;s crying. I reach forward, take her in my arms, and let her lean into my body as she crumples. What else is there to do?<\/p>\n<p>We stood like a statue of women welded together until the train slowed into the next stop. &#8220;Are you alright?&#8221; She nodded into my chest, took a deep breath, shakily stepped back, and thanked me. &#8220;Would you like to go for coffee?&#8221; I asked, &#8220;Talk about it?&#8221; <\/p>\n<p>I bought her a dark hot chocolate and sat with her in an oversized chair, our knees touching. &#8220;She was the sweetest thing in my life. We had the same colour hair, but her voice was her father&#8217;s, do you understand that?&#8221; I said that I did, and she continued, &#8220;I was wonderfully young, around your age. Such a nightmare. I felt so stupid. We searched the whole place, got security to shut down the doors, check the parking lot. Didn&#8217;t matter.&#8221; Her story was sad, terrible, simple, and not unexpected, considering how we met. About twenty years ago, she said, her nine year old daughter was snatched from a Lethbridge grocery store.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;This is only the third time I&#8217;ve ever mistaken someone for her, you know, and the other two people wouldn&#8217;t give me the time of day.&#8221; I put an arm around her and she rest against it, warming her tiny hands on her cup, and we sat, silent, with our heads together. &#8220;I&#8217;m glad you found me,&#8221; I said. &#8220;Me too.&#8221;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Standing on the C-train, I&#8217;m looking out the window, trying to pinpoint what stop I need to be closest to the bookstore, (I had accidentally left my book, The Best of Lady Churchill&#8217;s Rosebud Wristlet, on the floor of the taxi we took from the airport to the temporary hotel), when she taps me on &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/foxtongue.com\/dreampepper\/2007\/12\/09\/i-dont-know-where-lethbridge-is-but-the-name-is-nice\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;I don&#8217;t know where Lethbridge is, but the name is nice&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[1342,52,1416],"class_list":["post-2299","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-calgary","tag-missing-people","tag-random-encounters"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/foxtongue.com\/dreampepper\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2299","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/foxtongue.com\/dreampepper\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/foxtongue.com\/dreampepper\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/foxtongue.com\/dreampepper\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/foxtongue.com\/dreampepper\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2299"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/foxtongue.com\/dreampepper\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2299\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/foxtongue.com\/dreampepper\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2299"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/foxtongue.com\/dreampepper\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2299"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/foxtongue.com\/dreampepper\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2299"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}